Just because someone was excellent for you in the past does not guarantee they are still good for you today. Remember that you broke up for a cause, therefore avoiding touch with your ex is generally a good choice. It’s the greatest way for you both to move forward and discover where you truly belong. Here are the birth months who should avoid reconnecting with their ex.
March
If you were born in March, you may be too kind for your good. Although you may miss your ex, it is not always a good idea to contact them. Remember that you are permitted to love and care for them from afar. You do not have to let them back into your life simply because you are bored, lonely, or miss what they used to contribute to your life. You’ll have to adjust to life without them, which will be difficult yet rewarding in the end. Regardless of how strongly you want to talk to them, remember that it is in your (and their) best interests to stay apart for a bit.
October
If you were born in October, you are almost overly forgiving. When someone betrays you, give them the benefit of the doubt. You allow them to make amends for their actions, even if they do not deserve another (or third, or fourth) chance. However, moving forward, keep in mind that forgiving someone does not necessarily imply reconnecting with them. You can forgive them while deciding not to associate with them again. You can forgive them while keeping them out of your life entirely. You don’t have to keep giving them more opportunities to hurt you.
June
If you were born in June, you should consider all of your alternatives. You don’t want to live a life of regret, so if you’ve been regretting your breakup in even little ways, you might want to try rekindling things with your ex. But you split up for a cause. You cannot keep second-guessing your own decisions. You need to stick to your decision. You must be confident that you made the right decision and that you are better off without them. You have to trust yourself.
July
If you were born in July, you tend to blame yourself too much. Even if your partner was clearly to blame for the split, you’ll convince yourself that it was all your fault. You’ll think it’s unjust to condemn your lover for leaving when you could have done so much differently. Even if it was your fault that the relationship ended, you no longer owe them your time or attention. You’re broken up. You don’t owe them anything. You must cease being loyal to them when they were not loyal to you throughout your relationship. Live for yourself. Not for them.